| Title: | Parenting | 
| Notice: | Previous PARENTING version at MOIRA::PARENTING_V3 | 
| Moderator: | GEMEVN::FAIMAN Y | 
| Created: | Thu Apr 09 1992 | 
| Last Modified: | Fri Jun 06 1997 | 
| Last Successful Update: | Fri Jun 06 1997 | 
| Number of topics: | 1292 | 
| Total number of notes: | 34837 | 
    Purchasing a house and daycare expense don't mix!!!  Therefore, I am
    forced to withdraw my kids (2 boys) from their current daycare and seek a
    private babysitter of some sort.  I feel bad about this and not
    totally comfortable -  especially about placing an add in the newspaper. 
    
    Anyone have suggestions on where to find the ones you can trust?  I
    live in the Gardner area.
    
    Anne 
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| 1292.1 | How to find a Nanny.... | STAR::MANSEAU | Thu Jun 05 1997 10:44 | 22 | |
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    I put an ad in the local paper so I get responses from local people.
    Hopefully someone who has lived in the area a long time and has 
    good references.  I also ask them to send a resume with salary 
    requirements.  Then I call them, I don't put my number in the paper.   
    Maybe I don't get as many responses that way, but I get serious inquires.   I also don't spent time 
    I also don't spend time on the phone talking with people I'd never 
    consider.      
                                    
    I ask for at least three references and call all of them.
    Personal references and work references even if the work ones go 
    way back.
    
    Of course a drivers license is a must.   You can do a limited criminal 
    check just like the nanny services do.  The last time I looked into it, 
    there was a fee and you had to check each state.  I've never done it
    I always spend lots of time with a new nanny and use common sense.
    We spend a minimum one hour interviewing much longer if we like the 
    person.  Then we spend a day together with the children.  Then I 
    always pop in unannounced or have a relative or neighbor do the same.
             
   
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| 1292.2 | Thank you! | GLRMAI::HALL | Thu Jun 05 1997 13:21 | 4 | |
|     Thank you!  I would have put my number in the paper not thinking before
    hand. I will definately take this approach.
    
    Anne
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