| T.R | Title | User | Personal Name
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| 631.1 | little eye contact = autistic? | STAR::AWHITNEY |  | Mon Nov 22 1993 12:08 | 5 | 
|  |     I am curious as to why little eye contact = autistic?  4 weeks
    seems young to me for lots of eye contact but (I hate to admit it) -
    I really don't remember exactly how Sammy Kay was at 4 weeks. 
    
    
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| 631.2 | Maybe too early to hold eye contact... | NOVA::JOSHI |  | Mon Nov 22 1993 12:24 | 4 | 
|  | My daughter is about 3 months old;  as far as I remember, she did not hold
eye contact for an extended period at 4 weeks either.  Now, though, she will
make eye contact, smile, recognize etc!  So perhaps you should just wait and
see what your baby does in a few weeks!
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| 631.4 | is this behavior only with Mom? | BROKE::STEVE5::BOURQUARD | Deb | Mon Nov 22 1993 13:29 | 7 | 
|  | *If* this behavior is only seen with Mom, it may be that the baby senses
when he's being held by his mother and doesn't feel a need to study Mom's
face.
Hoping that this is *not* a problem...
- Deb
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| 631.5 | too early | PCOJCT::LOCOVARE |  | Mon Nov 22 1993 14:09 | 3 | 
|  |     I think it is too early to tell... talk to your doctor...
    
    
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| 631.6 | Don't worry! | SWAM1::MATHIEU_PA |  | Tue Nov 23 1993 19:21 | 17 | 
|  |     
    
    I remember reading that when breastfeeding, the baby studies the
    mother's face with incredible loving intensity and that it is one
    of the most rewarding parts of breastfeeding. I can tell you that
    Chloe never looked once at me, she was too busy getting as much milk as
    she could. She just stared into space.
    
    I can't remember her doing much focusing or eye contact either when
    little, and she is now a very active two year old.
    
    I would try to reassure your wife, she is probably just still under-
    going all the postpartum emotional upheaval. Let us know what the 
    doctor says. 
    
    Patricia.
    
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| 631.8 |  | CSC32::S_MAUFE | this space for rent | Fri Nov 26 1993 13:02 | 10 | 
|  |     
    I noticied a few months ago a friends baby always making/keeping eye 
    contact, and my two not really bothering. However, I'm terrible for now
    making eye contact and always feel self-concious about it.
    
    Soo, when holding the kids and talking to them and reading books and
    stuff now, I try and keep eye contact with them, and they are
    reciprocating for longer and longer periods. So you can work on it! 
    
    Simon
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