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    Sandy;
    
    	Hope this will help :
    
    	1.  How to get close to the cat.  
    	You could try giving him/her catnip.  Some cats really get zonked
    	out on catnip.  Also, is there a favorite toy, like a bell or brush
    	that CAM used to love?  You could bring that.
    
    	2.  How long is a cats memory?
    	I had a cat from the time I was 2 1/2 years old.  When I went away
    	to college, I'd be gone for 4 months at a time.  Everytime I came home,
    	Snoopy remembered me.
    	Also, my mother-in-law takes care of my cats when I go away.  They
    	may not see her for 2 months, but they still remember her.
    
    	The only difference that I can think of would be if something
    	really traumatic had happened, then maybe CAM wouyld lose his
    	memory.
    
    	Perhaps you could sort-of trap the cat in a laundry basket or a
    	room?
    	You know, come to think of it, once my cat, Lady, fell out of our
    	window.  (only a 3 foot drop)  But she's an indoor cat and she was 
    	very upset running back and forth on our deck which connects 6 
    	townhouses.  She was jumping at everyone's windows trying to get
    	back in.  Then my husband and I found her and she didn't recognize
    	us.  Actually she ran away from us.  So maybe it could be your cat 
    	is it's upset.
    
    	I'm sorry I can't help you more!
    
    	Rachael
    
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|  |     Thank you so much for responding.  It is so hard to go through 
    something like this.  To think that your kitty doesn't recognize you
    at all makes you wonder what the poor thing has been through in
    the last month.  Hopefully it is CAM and we can bring him home soon
    and spoil him rotten.  Beleive me he would be spoiled...
    
    Well we went back up the lady's house again last night because my
    nephew (who loves this cat dearly) insisted that he could tell if
    it was CAM no matter how far away the cat was.  Well as they got
    there the cat had already ate and was strolling back into the woods
    so he didn't get a good look at him.
                        
    This little old lady is sooo sweeet...she invites us in, gives us
    veggies from her garden, and keeps trying to get the kitty to come
    in the house.  She says she is getting closer and closer to him
    everyday.  She can atleast stand on the porch while he eats....and
    when she talks to him he meows!  That is progress considering he
    use to smell you and dart away.  She insists she will get him in
    her house by the end of the week.  Of not we then try your suggestion 
    with a Have-a-Heart Trap.  Boy I hope it's him!!!!
                                          
    If it is him....will he ever be the same CAM!  He use to get along
    so well with people and his kitty brothers at home.  He looks so wild
    right now!!
                                      
    Sandy (Poco, Barkley and Tamba ....I want my brother!!)
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