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| 2353.1 | Hmmmm, sounds like "Dream".... | SWAT::COCHRANE | Standing, stretching every nerve | Mon Apr 03 1989 16:22 | 14 | 
|  |     Sounds like an Oriental to me!!  I adopted Dream in
    November, a white oriental.  After ignoring us all
    for the first three weeks, she proceeded to chase 
    my other three mercilessly around the house!!!  There
    were some very wounded feelings for a couple of months,
    but now, about 6 months later, they are smoothing out
    somewhat.  Orientals are wonderful, loving, and yes,
    demanding cats, and Dream is the undisputed
    queen of the household (aka "Mommy's Little Princess").
                                                         
    Send me mail off-line if you'd like more details.
    
    Mary-Michael Cochrane
    SWAT::COCHRANE
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| 2353.2 |  | YOSMTE::CORDESBRO_JO |  | Mon Apr 03 1989 16:47 | 8 | 
|  |     You will have to give them time to work out their pecking order.
    Cats do not always take to newcomers right off the bat.  They have
    to have time to get to know each other.  The best thing that you
    could do is trim their nails, and let them work it out.  In order
    to avoid taking sides, stay out of their fights (unless they are
    *really* trying to kill each other).
    
    Jo
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| 2353.3 | Stand back and watch it fly.. | DRFIX::IVES | I'm my own Persian | Mon Apr 03 1989 21:40 | 14 | 
|  |     We introduced a new cat to our household last October and things
    went very smoothly, HOWEVER about once a month my two now decide
    it's time to try and rip each other apart and fur flies and we get
    out the squirt bottle and maybe yell a little. Like, "WHAT ARE YOU
    KITTIES DOING?"  This may go on for a couple of days and then peace
    reigns again, and you forget about those disagreements, and then they
    are at it again.
    
    I personally don't know anyone who doesn't have this problem even
    after the pecking order has been settled.
    
    They will quite down.
    
    Barbara
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| 2353.4 |  | CRUISE::NDC |  | Tue Apr 04 1989 08:13 | 12 | 
|  |     re: .3 - very true.  Mao and Isis have started the old
    sibling rivalry again.  Isis chases Mao around with a bottle
    brush tail and Mao growls and hisses and tries to hide.
    I really hate it when they do this and suspect that it has
    something to do with other cats in the yard, which they
    consider their territory.  Since they can't get to the
    invaders they take it out on each other.
      I yell at them and chase one or the other of them off.
    Usually its Isis as Mao tries to run away and hide and
    Isis chases her and keeps teasing.
      Anyone got any suggestions?
    
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| 2353.5 | Squirt so your throat won't hurt | YOSMTE::CORDESBRO_JO |  | Tue Apr 04 1989 14:56 | 7 | 
|  |     One suggestion for you Nancy, don't bother yelling at them, you
    just waste your breath.  Squirt both parties whenever a fight starts,
    no matter who started it.  Best not to appear to take sides by
    punishing only one.  It takes two to tango, know matter whose idea
    it is.
    
    Jo
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| 2353.6 |  | CRUISE::NDC |  | Wed Apr 05 1989 08:43 | 6 | 
|  |     re: squirt  - I don't know Jo.  Jack seems to think this is alot
    of fun....squirting cats that is....and I have to yell at him!
    (Seriously, I'll give it a try - usually Mao is out of range anyway
    behind the bed or something)
      N
    
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| 2353.7 |  | YOSMTE::CORDESBRO_JO |  | Wed Apr 05 1989 11:42 | 4 | 
|  |     I know what you mean Nancy, Ken sits around waiting for the kittens
    to do something wrong!
    
    Jo
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| 2353.8 |  | FSHQA1::RWAXMAN | A Cat Makes a Purrfect Friend | Wed Apr 05 1989 12:04 | 4 | 
|  |     Must be catching, this men with the squirt bottle thing.  Dana also
    loves to park it by the bed at night and let them have it when they're
    messing up the drapes or knocking things off the night stands!!
    
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| 2353.9 |  | ONFIRE::FRANCINE | heavy metal thunder | Wed Apr 05 1989 12:57 | 16 | 
|  |     
    
    Vicious feelings applied towards cats generated from jealous
    feelings!!!
    
    8*)
    
    One too many times I've had the questions asked?  "Who do you love
    more, the cat or me??"  Don't ask!!  8*)
    
    On the phone..  wait a sec.. hold on!!  comes back five minutes
    later.. what was that.. oh I heard a noise and thought it might
    be the cats.. oh wait, hold on a sec again..  awww my little babies
    needs to be patted.. okay i'm back..
    
    8*)
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| 2353.10 |  | YOSMTE::CORDESBRO_JO |  | Wed Apr 05 1989 13:35 | 4 | 
|  |     I have a t-shirt that says, "After the cat, Honey, you come first"!!!
    
    
    Jo
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| 2353.11 |  | CRUISE::NDC |  | Thu Apr 06 1989 07:56 | 8 | 
|  |     re: .10  I love that T-shirt Jo.
    
    re: men and squirt bottles.  I have come to the conclusion that
    there is a "brat" gene that is on the Y chromosome only because
    ALL men seem to be brats!
      Or maybe they just never grow up.
      N
    
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| 2353.12 | Must be so.... | ISLNDS::SOBEK |  | Thu Apr 06 1989 08:46 | 7 | 
|  |     re .9 and .10:
    	
    	An (ex)husband from a former life once said he thought I cared
    more about TiJai than I did for him.  TiJai was a part of my life
    for 13 year longer than he was....    :^)
    
    Linda
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| 2353.13 | Water polo.... | SWAT::COCHRANE | Standing, stretching every nerve | Thu Apr 06 1989 10:59 | 13 | 
|  |     Hmmm, this could be a trend.  Ian sits in the loft with the
    squirt bottle.  Kitty claws stairs, Ian gets kitty from loft
    railing.  Kitty get startled, runs upstairs, Ian gets kitty
    in hallway, kitty runs downstairs, Ian gets kitty from loft....
    etc.  We call it the "shooting gallery" because of the way
    the kitties run back and forth!!!  
    
    Dream got the best of him, though.  She figured out how far
    the water goes, and claws the carpet just out of reach, looking
    him straight in the eye with her "bold as brass" gaze the whole
    time!!!  ;-)
    
    Mary-Michael
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| 2353.14 | A typical morning with Shelby | FSHQA2::RWAXMAN | A Cat Makes a Purrfect Friend | Thu Apr 06 1989 11:43 | 19 | 
|  |     Yeah, Shelby has gotten to the point where when he goes to do something
    wrong, he looks at Dana to make sure he isn't watching then proceeds
    to knock vase of flowers over, kill the kleenex box, etc.  He (Shelby)
    has this morning ritual where he gets onto the nightstand next to
    the bed (my side) and knocks everything off, one by one; first the
    vase of silk flowers, then the kleenex box, then the telephone,
    (he's currently trying to push the lamp but it's too heavy).  This
    is his not-so-subtle way of saying, MOM, TIME TO GET UP, I WANT
    MY BREAKFAST - NOW!  NOW!!  NOW!!!  He does this at exactly the
    same time every morning and as soon as the vase (wicker, thank God)
    crashes to the floor, Dana reaches for the squirt bottle (his side
    of the bed) and Shelby goes flying off the night stand.
    
    It's a riot to see Shelby turn around and look at Dana while his
    paw is pushing the vase of flowers towards the edge.....
    
    
    /Roberta
    
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| 2353.15 |  | AIMHI::OFFEN |  | Thu Apr 06 1989 12:32 | 12 | 
|  |     re: .06
    
    Nancy,
    
    You yell at Jack???  I don't believe it.  He is sooooo sweet (and
    you are soo nice).  I loved Dundee and Mau.  I am so glad that 
    Dundee did so well.  I was very happy to meet you and Jack.  It's
    nice to put faces to names
    
    Sandi (Thunder's *I STILL LOVE HER* mom)
    
    
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| 2353.16 |  | CRUISE::NDC |  | Fri Apr 07 1989 08:08 | 13 | 
|  |     re: .15   JACK IS A FIRST CLASS BRAT!  
    
    He's got you fooled too, eh?!  Actually, he keeps me laughing
    so I wouldn't have him any other way.  
      And I have a real streak of "fire" so you ought to see me
    when I get "peeved" with Jack.  Sometimes he brats out on
    me just to get me cranked up.  Then he tells me its in chapter
    6 of "How to aggravate your Diettrich" which he claims he 
    inherited from my former boyfriend, John.  (BTW - John picked
    out Mao when he and I were together.  When we broke up I got
    custody of the cats!)
      Nancy Dc
    
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| 2353.17 | The Phil/Isis/Tarot/TC conspiracy | SUBURB::TUDORK | SKEADUGENGA | Fri Apr 07 1989 08:32 | 5 | 
|  |     Philip keeps pinching the squirt bottle to water the plants.  Then
    when the cats do something wrong, I reach out for the squirt bottle...
    and puff them with air.
    
    Really effective deterrent.
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| 2353.18 |  | ASABET::CUNNIFF |  | Fri Apr 07 1989 08:37 | 7 | 
|  |     
    
    Actually, I'm waiting for Nancy to start chasing the cats around
    so I can squirt her as well as the kittycats :-)
    
    jack
    (who_knows_better_than_he_seems_to)
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| 2353.19 |  | CRUISE::NDC |  | Fri Apr 07 1989 15:30 | 2 | 
|  |     re: .18
      I TOLD YOU HE WAS A BRAT!!!!!!!!!!
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