| T.R | Title | User | Personal Name
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| 396.1 | Are you sure you're single? | NEWPRT::BARTH | Karl - the Pigasus rider | Wed Sep 30 1987 20:25 | 7 | 
|  | If it's really ten years, your state may view that as a "common law"
marriage. In which case you are entitled to coverage for her - because
as far as the state is concerned, you are married.
Check with a lawyer.
K.
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| 396.2 |  | HIT::GLASER | Steve Glaser DTN 237-2586 SHR1-3/E29 | Wed Sep 30 1987 23:39 | 5 | 
|  |     re:.2
    
    Why do you assume it's a she?
    
    steveg
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| 396.3 | Sounds more polite than the "street" terms... | YUPPIE::COLE | I survived B$ST, I think..... | Thu Oct 01 1987 08:09 | 7 | 
|  | 	If I translate correctly, the acronym in the title means:
	"Person of Opposite Sex Sharing Living Quarters"
	The Census Bureau came with that, I think.  Or was the IRS?
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| 396.4 |  | BUSY::KLEINBERGER | MAXCIMize your efforts | Thu Oct 01 1987 09:16 | 6 | 
|  |     RE: .2
    
    and.... and since .0 is a male, the opposite sex is a female ;-),
    or a "she" as you put it...
    
    
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| 396.5 | Elementary, Watson... | NEWPRT::BARTH | Karl - the Pigasus rider | Thu Oct 01 1987 18:37 | 6 | 
|  | RE: .2,.4
Thank you, .4, for explaining my logic. I'm not much of a mind reader
or sexist.
K.
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| 396.6 | end the suspense | NAC::HUGHES | TANSTAAFL | Fri Oct 02 1987 08:28 | 8 | 
|  |     re: .2 et all
    In this case it is a she, but gay couples would have this problem
    as well, which I hadn't thought of.
    
    re: .1
    I live in Massachusetts which has a law against cohabitation.  There
    can be no recognition by the state therefore of common law marriage.
    
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| 396.7 |  | HYDRA::ECKERT | Jerry Eckert | Fri Oct 02 1987 08:35 | 6 | 
|  |     re: .6
    
>    I live in Massachusetts which has a law against cohabitation.
    
    That law was recently repealed.
    
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| 396.8 | Common law marriage - off the subject, but here's the facts | VIA::BINNS |  | Fri Oct 02 1987 13:59 | 12 | 
|  |     In any case cohabitation is not synonymous with common law marriage.
    The latter is a legal state that is recognized only in a few states.
    Chief among the requirments is that the couple "hold themselves
    out" as married (that is, call themselves husband and wife, etc).
    Duration is not a factor - one night is sufficient, if the conditions
    are met (this, and other factors, may vary among those states that
    do recognize common law marriage - I don't remember).
    Kit Binns
                                                                           
    (Former social security claims representative, who sometimes had
    to prove that people were married, so that they could get benefits)
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| 396.9 | elegant, no ? | ARMORY::CHARBONND | Common sense isn't. Pity. | Wed Oct 07 1987 13:44 | 1 | 
|  |     Re .0  Why not just marry her ?  ;-)/2
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| 396.10 | That's just the way it is. | NAC::HUGHES | TANSTAAFL | Wed Oct 07 1987 18:30 | 3 | 
|  |     Good question.  I've been asked the same question many times before.
    Next question?
    
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