| T.R | Title | User | Personal Name
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| 277.1 | Amherst, here I come! :-) | CADSYS::PSMITH | foop-shootin', flip city! | Wed Aug 08 1990 11:17 | 14 | 
|  |     Well, all I can say, is thank heavens I'm moving to Amherst in two
    weeks!  :-)
    
    I was talking about this rule to a friend who goes to UMass and we
    agreed it was a) impossible to enforce, b) inappropriate intervention
    by administration, and c) needlessly narrow.  You can't legislate
    politeness.  Summary:  it's dumb and it won't work.  We didn't think
    about how it's unconstitutional restriction of free speech, but that's
    very true...
    
    Sudden thought -- hey, maybe they could extend it to CONSTRUCTION
    SITES!!  Now THAT I would support!  :-)
    
    Pam
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| 277.2 | pointers | LEZAH::BOBBITT | water, wind, and stone | Wed Aug 08 1990 11:38 | 14 | 
|  |     see also:
    
    womannotes-v1
    271 - how do you spell harassment?
    798 - sexual harassment or cowardice?
    
    womannotes-v2
    949 - verbal abuse and harassment
    
    human_relations
    686 - harassment?
    
    -Jody
    
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| 277.4 | Just the person I'd pick. | REGENT::BROOMHEAD | Don't panic -- yet. | Wed Aug 08 1990 11:58 | 4 | 
|  |     Locke missed a swipe:  Here's ol' Gus making the rules for what
    constitutes harrassment against women and girls.
    
    							Ann B.
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| 277.5 | confessions of a bawdy wench | TINCUP::KOLBE | The dilettante debutante | Wed Aug 08 1990 14:54 | 8 | 
|  |     Why is it that we (generic universal humans) always have to take things
    to extremes? Sigh, this is the sort of thing that ends up imprisoning
    women. For matters of personal rudness I prefer the "Buzz off Bozo"
    defense.
    It also occurs to me that this is a take off on the "right to life" sex
    is bad and teenagers should never "do it" philosophy. Geeze, I'd be
    arrested under half those rules. (no I won't say which ones ;*)) liesl
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| 277.6 | did we read this right? | COOKIE::CHEN | Madeline S. Chen, D&SG Marketing | Fri Aug 10 1990 17:51 | 9 | 
|  |     
    I noticed that most the replies to this note assume the harrassment 
    rules in question apply to the male as the predator, and the female as
    the prey.   Who said the rule against lurid looks, or suggestive
    comments don't apply to the female doing the looking, and the
    suggesting?  The verbage in the original note did not imply which was
    which.
    
    -m
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| 277.7 |  | CONURE::AMARTIN | you IDIOT! You made me!!! | Sat Aug 11 1990 10:31 | 5 | 
|  |     ITs a given.  Only the male beast of the species can be so crass....
    
    
    :-) :-)
    
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| 277.9 | gray zones have gray definitions | AV8OR::TATISTCHEFF | noah and zeke like him too | Sat Aug 11 1990 16:22 | 20 | 
|  |     re .8
    
    the argument of using terms such as rape and sexual harrassment very
    carefully so as to retain the "shock value" our society places on them
    was used in _Liscence_to_Rape_ (on marital rape, a legal oxymoron in
    many states).
    
    while i find it a good argument, it leaves many victims in a real
    quandary on how best to describe what has happened to them.  they
    experience a real, horrible, and entirely unambiguous event, but are 
    left without words to describe it.
    
    re .0
    
    while the rule is terribly vague, and yes, could be abused easily, i
    can still envision many situations where the behaviors described
    (innuendo, leers, etc) could indeed leave a person *truly* and
    *justifiably* fearful.
    
    lee
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