| T.R | Title | User | Personal Name
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| 865.1 | I love it! | SWSNOD::DALY | Serendipity 'R' us | Thu Jun 02 1988 08:45 | 4 | 
|  |     Great analogy!  One aspect I love about it is the fact that in real
    life as you "grow" a child, you often wonder who is teaching whom!
    
    Mairon
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| 865.2 | friends | BLURB::RANDALL | Bonnie Randall Schutzman | Thu Jun 02 1988 09:25 | 13 | 
|  |     If the quote inspires you, great, but for me one of the key points
    of being a mother is that I'm raising my children to go off and
    leave me.  So thinking of my life as something I'm going to raise
    and push off to be independent of me doesn't make sense.  I mean,
    me and my life is old buddies, you know? We ain't going nowhere
    without each other. 
    
    Though I guess if you think of children as something that you
    shape and mold in your own ideas of wisdom, instead of as
    independent people in their own right, then it makes some sense to
    think of life that way. 
    
    --bonnie
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| 865.3 |  | CUBFAN::STHILAIRE | Best before Oct. 3, 1999 | Thu Jun 02 1988 11:58 | 11 | 
|  |     Re .2, but, Bonnie, even though I want my daughter to be an independent
    person in her own right, I also want us to be "old buddies", too!
    We enjoy one another's company now and I hope to always be able
    to count her among my closest friends.
    
    As far as the quote goes, I don't really see life as either my master
    or my child.  Maybe more like a salesperson that I have to barter with
    for good deals! 
    
    Lorna
    
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| 865.4 | yeah, that's what I meant | BLURB::RANDALL | Bonnie Randall Schutzman | Thu Jun 02 1988 12:41 | 10 | 
|  |     re: .3
    
    Lorna, your first paragraph says very succinctly what I was trying
    to say -- I hope my daughter will always be my friend, and I hope
    my life and I will always be friends, too. 
    
    Wish I had your talent for getting to the heart of the matter instead
    of talking around it all the time.
    
    --bonnie
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| 865.5 |  | MOSAIC::TARBET |  | Thu Jun 02 1988 13:01 | 3 | 
|  |     Lorna, I love your characterisation of Life!!
    
    						=maggie
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| 865.6 |  | 3D::CHABOT | Uppity Woman | Thu Jun 02 1988 14:50 | 6 | 
|  |     I like the child - life analogy too.  I mean, there are parts of
    my life that are independent of my control, such as friendships
    or things I've built.  They may start out from me, and get some
    nurturing from me, and sometimes even come back to me, but the pleasure
    of them is that they aren't just me.  But they are sort of like
    me, too.
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