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| 262.1 | Difficult Person No 1 | CHEFS::WARRENJ | flashing lights & electricity | Tue Nov 22 1994 15:17 | 8 | 
|  |     The Autocratic Dictator
    
    Characteristics:
    
    Stay in control by putting others down
    Rule from a "command post"
    Unwilling to hear opinions that differ from their own
    May be subject to fits of temper and rage
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| 262.2 | Difficult Person No2 | CHEFS::WARRENJ | flashing lights & electricity | Tue Nov 22 1994 15:18 | 9 | 
|  |     
    The Fault Finder
    
    Find fault with everything around them
    Produce endless lists of complaints
    Take no action to solve the problems they complain about
    Claim to be helpless against any obstacle
    
    
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| 262.3 | No 3 | CHEFS::WARRENJ | flashing lights & electricity | Tue Nov 22 1994 15:19 | 9 | 
|  |     
    The Back Stabber
    
    Attack from behind - never face to face
    Operate by way of putdowns, criticism and gossip
    Will pretend to be innocent of wrong doing
    Like to "gang up" before an attack
    
    
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| 262.4 | No 4 | CHEFS::WARRENJ | flashing lights & electricity | Tue Nov 22 1994 15:21 | 7 | 
|  |     The Critical Advice Giver
    
    Present themselve as "experts" on any subject
    Use condesencion and aloofness to intimidate others
    Intolerent of differences of opinion
    Blame others for their mistakes and bad decisions
    
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| 262.5 | No 5 | CHEFS::WARRENJ | flashing lights & electricity | Tue Nov 22 1994 15:22 | 8 | 
|  |     The Soothing Delayer
    
    Use stall tactics to avoid making decisions
    Pleasant in attitude, but fail to move ahead
    Agree with people to stay on their good side
    Tend to wver on decision and change their minds
    
    
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| 262.6 | No 6 | CHEFS::WARRENJ | flashing lights & electricity | Tue Nov 22 1994 15:23 | 8 | 
|  |     The Tight Lip
    
    Refuse to offer information
    Answer questions with "yes" or "no" responses
    Escape responsibiliy by saying "I don't know"
    Try to control a situation through silence
    
    
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| 262.7 |  | CHEFS::WARRENJ | flashing lights & electricity | Tue Nov 22 1994 15:24 | 6 | 
|  |     The Downer
    
    Feel they're life's "victims"
    Claim that things will always get worse
    Assess everything in negative terms
    Attack optimistic and positive attitudes
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| 262.8 | training film | KAOFS::C_PLANT | It had to be you... | Tue Nov 22 1994 15:37 | 13 | 
|  |     
    
    Choc
    
    I saw a training film with John Cleese on how to deal with difficult
    characters..some of the above were there. There was also
    some like Mr. Clam..etc....
    
    The film was a hoot!
    
    
    Chris
    :)
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| 262.9 |  | NETCAD::WOODFORD | AgeIsA NumberAndMine'sUnlisted. | Tue Nov 22 1994 18:01 | 10 | 
|  |     
    
    
    Hehehehe  This is great Jackie!!  I think I work with a
    shmorgasboard(sp?) of all of the previous replies.  :*)
    
    
    
    Terrie
    
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| 262.10 | human-frailness???????????? | OFOS02::RAGUCCI |  | Wed Nov 23 1994 00:32 | 4 | 
|  |     
    you've just described 1/2 the people in my family.
    	do you know them? ha!
    
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| 262.11 |  | ADCA01::RAVISHANKAR | Chocoholics Inc. (estd 1966) | Wed Nov 23 1994 05:54 | 21 | 
|  |     
    Hey how about this guy...
    
    Characterstics :
    
    	1. Loves to take responsibility ( only to show off ).
    	2. Take the credit but distributes the SH*T.
    	3. Tries to make himself indispensible and curses others for doing
           so.
    	4. Technically and Mangerially incompetent.
    	5. Sucks up to his boss.
    	6. Doesn't allow his subordinates to talk to his seniors for the
           fear of losing  control.
        7. Believes that delegation is all there is to responsibility.
    
    I'd love to classify this type of a guy....why ? well i work under
    one.. that why !! I call him PRIME PRI*K.
    
    Ravi.
    *8)
    
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| 262.12 |  | KAOA01::CLESTER |  | Wed Nov 23 1994 16:07 | 6 | 
|  |     
    
    Ravi....you have described the classic manager......heheheheheeh
    
    
    
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| 262.13 | John Cleese video series | TOOK::MORRISON | Bob M. LKG1-3/A11 226-7570 | Wed Nov 23 1994 20:42 | 9 | 
|  | >    I saw a training film with John Cleese on how to deal with difficult
>    characters
  Back in the old days here at LKG, we had a monthly video showing for this
sort of thing. We did a series of 4(?) of those John Cleese videos. I sat thru
two of them. Yes, they were funny, and one thing that made them funny was the
British humor!
  Today nobody here has time to set up this sort of thing, and nobody has time
to attend.
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