| Title: | The Joy of Lex | 
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     I know this isn't the place to ask this...(I also posted it in
     FOO::TRIVIA), but there are a lot of intelligent people in this
     conference that might be able to help me........
    
     Here's the question:
    
     Does anyone know the significance/purpose of Jordan almonds 
     at a bridal shower? (as favors)
    
    (this isn't a quiz....I really don't know the answer, but I'm hoping
     someone else does      :^)
	Thanks in advance...
					PJS
| T.R | Title | User | Personal Name | Date | Lines | 
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| 719.1 | and pastel-pretty besides | TLE::RANDALL | living on another planet | Thu Sep 14 1989 17:17 | 1 | 
| Because they make nice snacks? | |||||
| 719.2 | GLIVET::RECKARD | Jon Reckard, 381-0878, ZKO3-2/T63 | Thu Sep 14 1989 18:52 | 2 | |
| Symbolism for impending bliss? See, across the Jordan was the land flowing with milk and honey. And nuts? | |||||
| 719.3 | COOKIE::DEVINE | Bob Devine, CXN | Thu Sep 14 1989 19:44 | 10 | |
|     I've never heard of this custom.  Where was the wedding held?
    
    Rice is often thrown as a symbol of fertility.  However a few
    local weddings have used bird seed so that it is quickly eaten
    by wild birds (the fact that a few infants have been born with
    beaks can be just called coincidence).
    
    Perhaps there is a more prosaic explanation for Jordan almonds.
    For example, was one of the couple's parents or cousins in the
    wholesale food business and happened to have some left over?
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| 719.4 | Only for bridal showers... | CASPRO::SEDER | Thu Sep 14 1989 22:20 | 23 | |
|     It's not a wedding custom. At a lot of bridal showers, party favors
    are given out (such as potpourri in tiny baskets, or Jordan almonds
    in a little "pouch" made of netting...). Jordan almonds (for those
    not familiar with them), are almonds with a brightly colored candy
    coating.                             
    
    There is some symbolic reason for it, but I can't, for the life
    of me, remember what it is. My wife is matron of honor for an
    approaching wedding, and the bride-to-be jokingly said she _had_
    to have Jordan almonds, but only if my wife found out what they
    meant. I haven't had much luck finding it in any etiquette books,
    or in any books dealing with wedding customs. Maybe there _is_ no
    reason for it. But, hey, if there isn't a reason, why spend all
    that money on fancy nuts. I would just give M&M's, but that's the
    kind o' classy guy I is.     :^)
    
    
    Thanks.
    
    
    RE: bird seed/infants with beaks.
        :^) :^D :^) :^D
                         
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| 719.5 | Perhaps she thought they were bedroom sweets | LAMHRA::WHORLOW | Venturers do it in the bush | Mon Sep 18 1989 10:10 | 10 | 
|     G'day,
    
    Without wishing to cast nasturtiums...
    
    
    "_had_ to have jordan almonds...."
    
    like strawberries and ice cream with vinegar at 3am?.....
    
    djw
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| 719.6 | :^D | CASPRO::SEDER | Mon Sep 18 1989 13:57 | 3 | |
|     Come to think of it....that _does_ rather sound like her...
    
    :^) :^) 
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