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| 689.1 | | PSTJTT::TABER | handy hints for around the home | Wed Jun 28 1989 19:32 | 8 |
| I wouldn't think so. I believe you can have very good manners and still
be inconsiderate. I take manners to be the way you interact socially,
but consideration is your awareness of others. I like to think I have
good manners when I'm aware of others, but I'm sadly inconsiderate in
that I often forget to be aware. The confusion probably arrises because
many people pretend to be unaware when they are purposely bad-mannered.
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| 689.2 | | SSDEVO::GOLDSTEIN | | Thu Jun 29 1989 16:04 | 5 |
| I should think that one could also have impeccable manners and yet be
quite inconsiderate. In fact, that might not be a bad definition of
'diplomacy.'
Bernie
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| 689.3 | | SSDEVO::EGGERS | Anybody can fly with an engine. | Thu Jun 29 1989 23:46 | 1 |
| I've heard that a "gentleman" never offends anybody accidentally.
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| 689.4 | | SSDEVO::GOLDSTEIN | | Fri Jun 30 1989 16:21 | 12 |
| It may also be possible to have bad manners and yet be considerate.
This would certainly be the case if bad manners entail merely a failure
to say 'please' and 'thank you.' If bad manners entail downright
rudeness, then I am not sure whether one could be both bad mannered and
considerate.
Re: .3
Odd, I've heard the same thing said of the Hell's Angels.
Bernie
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