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| 321.1 |  | QUOKKA::3737::RAUH | I survived the Cruel Spa | Fri Aug 12 1994 09:55 | 3 | 
|  |     What state do you live in?
    
    Call the DOR/DCYS/etc and find out.
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| 321.2 | Could be a state of mind | QUOKKA::29881::LEBLANC |  | Fri Aug 12 1994 10:59 | 1 | 
|  |     The one and only and mind you oh so fair to the father "Massachusetts".
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| 321.3 |  | QUOKKA::3737::RAUH | I survived the Cruel Spa | Fri Aug 12 1994 11:35 | 8 | 
|  |     I rather doubt that there will be a childsupport reduction. But, if
    there is. And you get a court order and something doesnt go down the
    right way. A co-worker here got really miffed when his last son was
    working, out of school, and was paying child support. He called the
    Gov of Mass. and got action!! YES! He made his last child support
    payment about a month ago. And it was as legal as an eagle!:)
    
    
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| 321.4 |  | QUOKKA::29067::HADDOCK | Saddle Rozinante | Fri Aug 12 1994 12:33 | 11 | 
|  |     
    Most states go by "guidelines" in setting child support.  The amount
    paid usually depends partly on the number of children supported.  So
    I'd expect some amount of reduction if you should get custody changed.
    If you don't get custody changed, you may have to continue paying 
    the same amount even thought the child is living with you 8-(.  If 
    you get a reduction, it may not be by half (for two kids) since the 
    guidelines don't usually allow for paying more for the first child 
    than for subsequent children.
    fred();
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| 321.5 |  | QUOKKA::5311::BRUCKERT |  | Mon Aug 15 1994 06:53 | 11 | 
|  | 		
		First legal custody must and should change. In conjunction with
	that the support will be recalculated, with the guidelines in the 
	background as they don't directly address the case where each parent
	has custody of a child. The biggest single factor would be the $15,000
	deduction for the custodial parent since each is entittled to it nulling
	the affect out. In this case the bottom line is if an agreement
	between the parties can't be reached it all boils down to what judge
	you get and the relative earning powers. It could vary all the way from
	no child support either way (if earning potential is similar) to only
	a modest reduction if the earning power is greatly different.
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| 321.6 | Age of consent | QUOKKA::29881::LEBLANC |  | Mon Aug 15 1994 07:37 | 2 | 
|  |     My daughter will be 15 this month. Is she at a legal age to decide what 
    parent she wants to live with? 
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| 321.7 |  | QUOKKA::3737::RAUH | I survived the Cruel Spa | Mon Aug 15 1994 08:05 | 4 | 
|  |     Yes. And must formally state it in the legal manner thru the proper
    channels of your state.
    
    
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