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    Stephanie,
    
    I think you'd find either a Cockatiel or a Grey Cheek very suitable. 
    My personal preference is for the Grey Cheek (but I've got one that I
    love dearly, so I'm *biased* ;-)
    
    Some other small to medium-sized parrots which are generally friendly
    and really sweet if hand-fed, but are still independant: Pionus,
    Senegals, many conures (if you don't appreciate screeching noise, look
    for blue crown, maroon Belly, or green cheek conures - they aren't as
    noisy as some others), and any of the other brotegeris species
    (relatives of the grey cheek, several varieties, commonly called beebee
    parrots).  While in general they are a bit more standoffish, you may
    find some individual ringneck parrots or Alexandrines suitable.  Also
    consider some of the lovely mini-macaws available, such as Hahn's or
    Yellow Collars.
    
    You'll probably find that cockatoos are *not* a good choice for you -
    they are far too demanding of attention for your situation.  African
    Greys are more independant, as are most Amazons, but both can be a
    little quirky and intimidating for a firt time parrot owner.
    
    Perhaps the best advice I can think of to offer you is that in most
    cases you should make the choice based on the the individual bird,
    rather than the species.  Shop around, talk to breeders and quality pet
    stores, be sure to take your SO with you, and look for that special
    individual bird that steals your heart and chooses you.
    
    
    					Best of Luck/Rita
    
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	You might want to look into a hand-fed indian parrakeet.  They have
	two hand-feds (one green and one lutino) at New England Tropical Pet
	in Chelmsford, and they are very friendly.
	Anyone can walk up and stick out a hand, and either of the birds will
	climb aboard.  Fully grown I believe they are a little bit bigger than
	cockatiels and much bigger than grey cheeks (which are also very
	friendly birds).
	I believe that what ever bird you choose, the correct answer is
	HAND-FED!
	-dick
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|  |     Hi,
    
    I'll put in a vote for a hand-fed cockatiel, since you are used to
    the smaller birds.  They can sometimes talk, are very affectionate
    when hand-fed as babies and taken out regularly as adults, come in
    a variety of appearances, and are usually under $150, even for the
    show quality ones.  There are several breeders in the Southern
    New Hampshire and Mass. area.  Some are listed under the breeder note
    here... if you are in another area, let me know and I'll try to
    help you locate some breeders in your area.
    
    Linda
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